Showing posts with label My Journey. Show all posts
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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Do Not Worry...but Do Worship!


“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? - Matt. 6:25

If you're like me you worry. Worry is like a bad tenant who rented out some space in my brain years ago and although I've evicted him several times he keeps sneaking back in and stinking up the place. The first part of this year was perhaps the biggest struggle with worry I've ever experienced. The source was a growing understanding of our country's fragile financial solvency as a result of the Quantitative Easing policies of the Federal Reserve, and a growing concern that this IS in fact the biggest threat our nation has ever faced. You could say I became obsessed with learning what in the world was going on here. April and other friends tried to pull me out of the pit but in the end I had to climb out myself and find a place of peace, giving the worry to God. In my defense, a good part of my anxiety was in fact ongoing intercessory prayer. But a larger part was good ole fashion fear. And that's where my Father was trying to comfort me.

I appreciate Christ's command to "not worry about your life" but it's just so natural it seems. I mean we all have to work, right? The scripture also says, "If you don't work you shouldn't eat" (2 Thess 3:10) and "talk" without "hard work" leads to poverty (Prov. 14:23). It seems natural to worry that our hard work will be stollen by forces we cannot control. And you know what? It just might. Corrupt leaders have taken from weaker "subjects" for all of human history. So how do we not worry when there really is something to worry about?! Here's what I've rediscovered.




I can't say I'm cured by any means. That dirty, dangerous tenant likes to bang on the walls of my mind nearly everyday. But what I've rediscovered is that when the worry man comes knocking it's time to bang right back... with worship! We MUST remember we are MADE to worship. It's fine to seek understanding and prepare for what the world may fire at us. But it's not fine to get lost in that preparedness and forget that we aren't even citizens of this world. We are -- right now -- in fact "citizens of heaven" (Philippians 3:10). And what are they doing in Heaven? Worship. Praise. Honoring God day after day. So why would we not celebrate the realm we actually live in ... along with all the multitudes in heaven who are doing the same?
You alone are the Lord. You made the heavens, even the highest heavens, and all their starry host, the earth and all that is on it, the seas and all that is in them. You give life to everything, and the multitudes of heaven worship you. - Nehemiah 9:5-7
We are meant to worship. In the first half of this year I obsessed about the world, America, and the dollar. So I promised God a few months back that I would spend the last half of the year obsessing more about Him, His scriptures, His people, and His Kingdom. In keeping that promise I've read through Romans a few more times, taught my kids new praise and worship, and pressed into deeper fellowship with friends in the Kingdom of God. Each of these things are worship. And each of them are not only healing, they bring focus, balance, security, and purpose. We are MADE to worship. When we worship we escape the clutches of this dark place and ascend On High with our Maker! We are made to worship.

So if you're like me... it's hard not to worry. But when we are tempted to worry we should worship instead. For me that means worshipping all day long, just as it should be. 

Do Not Worry...but Do Worship




Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Arguing with a Church Leader about Shunning & the Prodigal Son Story

Last night April and I took the kids to Memphis to see Chris Tomlin in concert. Half way through some amazing worship (dancing and light show included!) we heard Louie Giglio give one of the most amazing teachings about the prodigal son. Prodigal means extravagant spender. He suggested the title chosen for this story might be better applied to the Father who, once his son came home, threw a huge party! 
The father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate!  
This was after a hug and kiss spectacle in the street where the father was likely out of breath from running!
And while he was still a long distance away, his father saw him coming, and was filled with loving pity and ran and embraced him and kissed him.
As I listened with tears in my eyes I thanked God for His extravagant grace. He sees us coming home and he runs to embrace and kiss us! This story truly is about the Father's unconditional love for us! It's about the party He throws when we come home! 


This morning I'm so filled with peace and thankfulness. But I also can't stop thinking about an argument I had with a church pastor one time. I had gone to speak with him about his church's practice of shunning people who leave his church. Here's the story. 


A single young adult in the church had come to believe God was wanting her to move away, to experience Him in another city, and so the Pastor told the church they were to not have any contact with her after she left. He taught his church that the rejection and loneliness would create in her a repentance leading her back to his church. I decided to challenge his doctrine of shunning by using the story of the prodigal son. 

I tend to get really excited and worked up about this story. I came home to my God and Father at age 21, after four years of rebellion. I have a picture on my office wall of the prodigal son coming home. I have a poem I wrote to God taped to the back of the picture. I've read books about this story. But mostly I've leaned into this Father of grace and forgiveness clearly portrayed in this story. As I got into my reasons why this pastor should not shun this teenager I felt filled with the Spirit. I said, "Why did the father go ahead and give his boy the money and let him leave? Why did the son think to return home? I suggest he had a picture in his head the entire time he was gone. That image was of his father, arms open wide on the front porch, or staring through the window. The attitude of the father is supposed to be our attitude as well, toward those who might leave us!" 


As I got more wound up the pastor's face got more frowned up...or down. But I continued. "What if, instead of allowing this girl to go out under heavy rejection, gossip, and slander, we send her out with an inheritance? What if, instead of telling the church to shun her -- to not talk to her or see her off, or invite her back -- we have a meeting and gather around her and bless her? What if we lay hands on her, give her gifts, tell her we'll miss her and she can always return home? What if we show her the same mercy that God shows us?!" At this point he couldn't listen to me any longer and so he exploded with anger. 

     "YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ANYTHING ABOUT THE FEAR OF THE LORD!!" he shouted at me. Then, with a red face, he described a God that, frankly, well... I don't know the God he was describing. 

It's sad how people can get off track, thinking God doesn't love them. I think somewhere deep down this pastor doesn't really feel the love and forgiveness of God. I continued to describe the loving Father whom I have come to know but I could tell I was attempting to cut through years and years of legalism. So I bowed out of the argument. But I have never stopped praying for him. Everyone - especially church leaders - should know and feel the unconditional love of the Father that allows us to call HIM - our God -- "Father." What is available to one is available to all who are justified by faith -- peace with God. 

Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Romans 5:1-2
Fortunately, I heard the girl's family and friends did not follow the pastor's plea for shunning and reached out to her anyway while she was gone. They made sure she knew she was loved, accepted, and forgiven. So she returned to the church. Unfortunately, the same is not true for many others that were shunned by this pastor. But there's always hope. 

I'm working on some posts about church shunning. It's a topic that I wish no one had to write about. But many have. I'm not the first. Nor am I the expert. I have opinions just like everyone else. Most of my opinions I'm willing to budge on. But there is one opinion I hold to pretty strongly -- God LOVES us! 


God LOVES you! HE loves YOU with a love that our feeble hearts cannot understand. So HE sent HIS son to put on human flesh, to become just "like the children", where he told some amazing stories (like the prodigal son story), all of which reveal the TRUTH about God's amazing love. If that were not enough this Lord of Lords and King of Kings washed the dirty, stinky feet of his followers in an upper room. He did this to show them HOW to love others - others they would soon lead!  

Then this God in a man's body voluntarily died on a cross for our sins, making it possible for us to have peace with God. He didn't stay in the cold ground long. Three days. He then went back home to be with His Father, where He now sits at God's right hand and intercedes for us, where I'm convinced He points right down at you and me, elbows his Father, and says, "Look, there's one of your children right there! And there's another one! And look!! There's one coming home to you RIGHT NOW!!!" At which point the Father jumps to his feet with excitement and a party begins in the temple courts! 


There is NO love like the LOVE of our God. And there is NO greater point to this life than to surrender to HIS Spirit and allow that same supernatural love to somehow eek out of us, through our own natural forms. We are simply HIS vessels on Earth now, placed here to show the Father's love. But first we must come home running. Come home running. He understands. His name is Jesus! And He understands. 

To my pastor friend...you don't have to shun people anymore. God has not shunned you. Your past no longer matters. If you were to repent to those you've hurt they would forgive you and accept you, just like our God. God accepts you and loves you with all HIS heart. You cannot earn His love or a better place in heaven. His love for you cannot increase nor can it decrease. It is, and always has been, at its max... for you. So c
ome home running. He understands. His name is Jesus! And He understands. 

This is for you: 



PS - There are SO many more than a mere 7000 gonna be partying in paradise!  ;-)

Monday, September 16, 2013

Build Each Other Up and the Future of FIC


Build Each Other Up and the Future of FIC

Last night April and I had some friends over to talk and pray about the future of Families in Christ Ministries (FIC). I have to say, we have some amazing friends.
For a very long time I have dreamed about how FIC could work to help marriages, parents, single ladies, the poor, the pastors, the imprisoned, and more. But I also knew FIC would never be “just me.” So last night I put the following question to my friends: “What do you think should be the focus of FIC and what ideas do you have for beginning this ministry here in Jackson, TN?”
Immediately the ideas began to fly –
  • A yearly FIC Conference with a variety of workshops, speakers, small groups, and encouragement for people in many different walks of life. 
  • Communication Skills Workshops for engaged couples and newly-weds, or for any couple who would like to learn to better resolve conflict.
  • Regular prayer times for the FIC Board of Directors.
There were many more ideas but the really neat thing is how quickly our talking about FIC became a time of encouraging one another in the Lord. It’s so good to be with friends who know your heart and what makes you tick. It’s good to build each other up.
We talked for a couple of hours and came away very encouraged. And I came away with one thing: Whatever the specific future of FIC, and whatever “ministry” we find ourselves doing for the Lord, one thing is for sure, at the heart of all of it will be LOVE and the never-ending work of building one another up.

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Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Breaking the Silence...the U.S.A. is a kingdom of THIS world!

It's been six months since my last post. The reason for my sabbatical is two-fold:  

  1. I've been researching economics. 
  2. I've been researching spiritual abuse.  

Both of these topics have become of great interest to me. In future posts I will write about spiritual abuse. But first, here is my ONE post on economics. In Feb. I watched the movie "End of the Road" on Netflix. Here is the trailer: 




As a result of watching this entire film on Netflix I began to explore the validity of this video. 20 weeks later, having read dozens of articles, and a hand-full of books, what I've learned is very disturbing.

There is something to this. Here is the beginning point of it all. 

The basis for discussion about economics begins with an understanding of the difference in Keynesian and Austrian Economic philosophy.

A very good book summarizing the two is

Ron Paul vs. Paul Krugman: Austrian vs. Keynesian economics in the financial crisis. by Jeremy R. Hammond (Author)
This blog is NOT about economics. So that's as far as I'll go with this post. I've listed some of the best books I've read this year on this subject. This topic is worth looking into, regardless of your political or religious opinions, for if it's true it will impact most of us. 


I will only say this in closing, because our HOPE is in GOD: 

The U.S.A. is a kingdom of THIS world. It is not, nor has it ever been THE Kingdom of God. Discoveries of geo-political, financial corruption, etc. should not surprise us. The kingdoms of this world are governed by the kings (leaders) of the world. They often have their own wealth and power as top priority. Citizens are subject to the desire of the earthly King, Leader, President, etc. 

But God's Kingdom is ruled by His Spirit, where the citizens of Heaven are ruled by God Himself. His aim is to increase the fruits of the Spirit -- love, joy, peace, patience, etc. -- in the citizenship so that the glory of Christ will be make known to the nations. The goals, methods, and purpose of the kingdoms of the Earth and the Kingdom of Heaven are vastly different. Case in point: as I finish this up to post the US is considering a strike on Syria. 

The Citizens of Heaven are about LOVE, forgiveness, purity, honesty, and holiness. This is why a certain kingdom of the World, led by the 1st century Pharisees, put the King of Kings to death on a cross. His very presence, His teaching, His example, and His sacrifice sheds light on the immorality and greed of the world's kingdoms.


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